Short answer: Match the low-effort opener with a little more energy than they gave, then hand them a specific question so the conversation has somewhere to go.
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Flirty replies (when you want it to go somewhere)
Bad vs. better
Why it works: It matches their casual energy but adds a playful challenge that forces them to reply with something real.
What 'hey you' actually means
It usually means they liked your profile enough to reach out but not enough to think of a line yet. It is a soft, low-risk test to see if you will meet them halfway.
That is good news. A vague opener gives you total control of the tone, so you get to decide whether this turns funny, flirty, or straight into an actual conversation.
Funny vs flirty: pick your lane
Go funny when the profile reads playful or you are not sure yet. A self aware line like admitting you were losing an argument to a crossword lowers the stakes and makes them laugh before they judge you.
Go flirty when their photos or bio already gave you a spark. Calling out that two words rearranged your evening tells them you noticed and are interested, without overplaying it on message one.
Dating app vs a normal text
On a dating app they are talking to several people, so blending in is the real risk. Reference something specific, even something small about your own day, so you read as a person and not a copy paste.
With someone you already know, 'hey you' carries history and you can be warmer and more direct. On an app you have to earn that warmth in the first two lines instead of assuming it.
How to not sound dry
Dryness comes from returning the same energy without adding anything. 'Hey' back, or 'not much you' back, gives them nothing to grab, and the thread dies by tomorrow.
Fix it with one concrete detail and one question. Say what you were actually doing, then ask them something they cannot answer with a single word. Specific plus a question beats clever plus a dead end every time.
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No, matching a flat opener with a flat reply almost guarantees the thread stalls. Add one specific detail about your day and a question so they have a clear next move.
On a dating app, minutes to a couple of hours is fine and reads as normal. Do not strategically wait days, an eager but specific reply beats a cold slow one.
A bit of both. It is low effort, but it also means they chose you, so treat it as an open door and bring the energy they did not.
Ask an open question that needs a real answer, like what their weekend looked like. If they still give one word twice, they are not invested and you can stop carrying it.