How to Reply to "hey"

Short answer: Don't just say 'hey' back. Answer the greeting, then add one concrete detail or a playful twist so they have something specific to react to.

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Funny replies you can actually send

"Hey back. I was mid-argument with my toaster and you rescued me."

"A wild hey appears. I choose you to make this conversation actually interesting."

"Hey. Fair warning, I peaked conversationally three messages from now. Enjoy the ride."

"Currently ranking my snacks by emotional support value. Where do you rank?"

"Hey yourself. I'm reliably better in person and worse at texting first."

"Debating whether to reply fast or play it cool. Fast won, obviously."

"Hey. I match with people, then quietly panic about my opening line."

"You led with hey, so now I get to pick our entire vibe. Bold."

"Hey. My camera roll is 80 percent food, 20 percent stranger dogs."

"Finally, someone braver at starting things than me. Hey right back."

Flirty replies (when you want it to go somewhere)

"Hey. I was hoping you'd go first so I could pretend I'm chill."

"That hey did more than it should have. Careful with that kind of energy."

"Hey back. Warning, I get dangerously charming around the second good message."

"You said hey and now I'm rearranging my whole evening around it. No pressure."

"Hey. I'll trade you a real conversation for a first date you'll remember."

"Something about your hey made me stop scrolling. Consider me officially intrigued."

"Hey yourself. Quick audit, are you as fun as your profile keeps promising?"

"Hey. I'm hopeless at this until date one, then suspiciously smooth."

Bad vs. better

Before

"hey lol how are you"

After

"Hey back. I was mid-argument with my toaster and you rescued me."

Why it works: It answers the greeting but hands them a concrete, funny image to grab onto instead of another dead 'good, you?'

What a 'hey' on a dating app actually means

A lone 'hey' usually means low effort, not low interest. They swiped, felt a spark, and defaulted to the safest opener that exists. The bar is on the floor, which is great news for you.

It also means they're testing whether you can carry a conversation. Whoever adds the first real detail sets the tone, so treat 'hey' as an open mic, not a dead end.

Funny vs flirty: pick your lane

Go funny when the profile reads goofy or you want to keep things light before committing. A self-aware line about your snacks or your texting habits builds comfort fast and lowers their guard.

Go flirty when the photos already have chemistry and you want to move toward a date. Name the spark directly ('that hey did more than it should have') so intent is obvious without being creepy.

Dating-app 'hey' vs a normal-text 'hey'

On a dating app, 'hey' is from a near-stranger auditioning you, so you can be bolder and funnier than feels natural. There's no history to protect, only a vibe to build.

In a normal text from someone you know, 'hey' often signals they want something or want to reconnect. There you answer warmer and more personal, not with a bit.

How to not sound dry

Dry is 'hey', 'good you?', 'not much'. Every one of those closes a door. The fix is a single concrete noun: a toaster, a dog, your snack ranking, tonight's plans.

End with a small hook, either a question or a claim they'll want to challenge. 'Are you as fun as your profile promises' begs a reply. A flat statement doesn't.

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FAQ

Should I just say 'hey' back?

No. Matching their low effort stalls the chat. Answer the greeting, then add one detail or a playful challenge so they have a specific thing to respond to.

How fast should I reply to a 'hey'?

Within a few hours is fine on a dating app. Don't overthink timing; a dry reply hurts you far more than replying quickly ever will.

Is it okay to be flirty right away?

If the chemistry is already in the photos, yes. Keep it playful, name the spark once, and avoid anything about their body. Confidence lands, thirst doesn't.

What if they just say 'hey' again?

They're low effort or shy. Give one more concrete opener with an easy question. If it stays one word, let it go and spend your energy elsewhere.